4 minHow to stop being miserable...RIGHT NOWThe amazing thing was, the more I focused my thoughts on others, the less miserable I felt.
7 minWhat if the other person is just a JERK?!When someone is abusive, true compassion does not mean just giving them what they want. It means giving them what they need.
1 minHumility, the magic bulletBeing humble means actually thinking less about yourself, thinking more about others, and being willing to be proven wrong.
2 minSports Cars and BiasMy son is obsessed with fast cars. He can recognize different models even at night by the shape of their headlights. He has a growing Hot...
3 minHAPPINESS 4 of 5: When achieving goals actually makes us more miserableWe get told that we need to set goals for success in life and work. But sometimes setting goals leaves us feeling worse than before.
3 minHAPPINESS 3 of 5: You're doing happy all wrongHold on to your hats, because this post is going to get awfully counterintuitive.
1 minhow to not be a jerkIt's easy to see what's wrong with people. He's rude, she's impatient, he's arrogant, she's fragile. Anybody can diagnose others. What's ...
1 minHow to SEEWhen we see they physical world, our brains receive 10 million bits of data per second. The brain filters and organizes all of this base...
2 minWhy you should quit trying to be coolI spend a grotesque amount of time trying to get people to think well of me. Trying to say something clever so they'll think I'm smart, b...
4 minHow do you see people? The answer might surprise you.In research psychology, there is a phenomenon called “inattentional blindness”. It refers to the finding that when we humans are paying c...
2 minWhy a blog about seeing people as people? Because our brains are dumb.None of us are naturally open-minded. It’s not our fault; our brains were designed this way. We naturally and instinctively seek out info...
1 minFar-right and Black Lives MatterEven they can see each other as people This is one of my favorite videos to come out of the political turmoil of the last year. I’ve seen...