how to not be a jerk
It's easy to see what's wrong with people. He's rude, she's impatient, he's arrogant, she's fragile.
Anybody can diagnose others.
What's hard is seeing the hurts and desires and longings and losses that twist around people's souls and tug them toward behaving badly.
Don't be the person who makes everything worse. Be the person who offers a way out.
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